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AMONG FRIENDS

MAIN POINT
“Friend” is a word used — and perhaps overused — to describe an array of relationships, describing everything from casual acquaintances to soul mates. But true friendship as God describes it goes beyond simply contact or shared experience to a heart-level care and connection that involves sacrifice for another.

CHARACTERIZATION
These are three lifelong pals. They are relaxed and comfortable around each other, even exchanging jabs in a way that is endearing. If you can find actors who are also good friends, play to their natural connection by casting them together.

Al is the likable, boisterous slob. He fixates on the screen during most of the conversation. He shovels in popcorn constantly and talks with his mouth full at times.

Ted is the central role model. He’s as much a sports fan as anyone, but with the added quality of being able to sense and pursue need in those he cares about.

Mitch is the typical male going through some tough times. He’s struggling at home, but has no intention of letting it show.

DIRECTOR'S NOTES
1. Timing is a key element in the exchanges.  The shifts back and forth between talking about the game, and the more personal discussion, should be well-practiced so that they can be done seamlessly.

2. The popcorn is a prime prop for humor in the sketch. Experiment with best times to have a character (especially Al) eat it, pass it, toss it up and catch in his mouth, talk with it in his mouth, or spill it.

3. Try shifting the blocking so that the TV is watched in the direction of the audience, with the actors’ focal point being front-row-center when watching the game.

RELATED SCRIPTURES
The beauty of true, biblical friendship is described in Ecclesiastes 4:9-12, with elements of its character highlighted in Proverbs 17:17; 18:24; and 27:5-6. The greatest picture and description of friendship in God’s definition is found in John 15:12-17.

RELATED THEMES
The sketch can illustrate a number of dynamics in human relationships, including listening, bearing each other’s burdens, serving, sacrifice, and preferring one another. Try it in a training setting with small group leaders to study examples of how people relate to one another.